I believe
that we, the baby boomers, are also the hope of our nation. We have lived through some of the most
challenging and entertaining times in our country’s history:
From the
Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor to fighting in Iraq and Afghanistan.
From the
polio vaccine to cures for many types of cancer and better treatment for others.
From Elvis
shown only from the waist up on the Ed Sullivan Show to the beautifully
produced documentaries by Ken Burns on PBS.
From “The
Cat in the Hat” to “The Purpose Driven Life.”
We have
skills and at least partial answers that we can use to help our children and
grandchildren understand how to go on from here, how to make a difference.
I believe we
do that by example, our actions agreeing with our words.
And if we
are part of the hope of our nation, we’d better get busy imparting some of our
knowledge and life experiences to those who need to hear it.
I encourage
you to intentionally tell your grandchildren about your life. Tell them where you’ve been, even if you’ve
never been outside of Marshall County.
There are plenty of stories about you and Marshall County that need to
be told, and they need to be told by you.
Tell your
grandchildren who you’ve been in the past, what you did for a living, what
education or training you’ve had.
Teach them
how to play a card game, like Hearts or Go Fish. Watch Bonanza together and relate how you had
a crush on Little Joe.
One good way
of starting a conversation with a grandchild is to look at photographs from
your childhood. My 5-year-old
granddaughter loves to look at the naked baby picture of her Gran!
It’s so
important for your grandchildren to know you as a real person, one who has
funny stories and serious stories, stories about their parents and stories
about the history they are learning in school.
I remember
talking to a babysitter in high school who kept the kids one summer, and I
mentioned something about President Kennedy’s assassination. I said, “Well, you remember that.” And she said, “No, but I read about it in
history.”
Wow! At that point, it had not occurred to me that
anything that had happened in my lifetime, around 35 years of it, could be in a
history book already. But Kennedy was
assassinated in 1963 and I was talking to her in the late 80’s. 25 years to her was the definition of
history.
You are
living history. Spread it around and let
us all benefit from it.
Powerful, powerful, powerful! Thank you dear Carol. I needed to hear that. Your message was like a shot of energy in my soul!. I have six grandchildren. They have heard some of our story. They will hear more! Remarkable post! Send it to the local newspaper.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Margie. I value your opinion, so these kind words are much appreciated. I guess I could send it as a Letter to the Editor, couldn't I? Maybe...
Deletenothing is better than a 10 year, speaking of some guy that was in her history book "Werner von Braun". I said I have a picture of him and her grandad, at work NASA. At that point i'm not sure who was older my dad, or me?
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Good idea about a letter to the paper! You and Alice Duckett should get together. In case your grands have short memories, your blogs or essays would be invaluabl
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