What does a
full tank of gas and yogurt that tastes like Boston Crèam Pie have in common?
They both
put a spark in my honey’s eye!
My Honey |
David never,
ever liked yogurt until Yoplait came
out with wonderful flavors that don’t taste like yogurt at all. We’re now both hooked on flavors like Apple
Turnover, Red Velvet Cake, Cinnamon Roll and Triple Berry Torte.
But when I
come in from the grocery store with Boston Cream Pie Yogurt, his smile is extra
big. He knows that I don’t eat that
particular flavor, so I bought it just for him.
However, his
smile is practically non-existent when he uses my car and finds the gas tank in
desperate want. My idea of needing to
fill up is when the little reminder light has been on for a few days. Definition of the word “few”: Being more than one
but indefinitely small in number. (It’s the indefinitely
part that we argue about).
In my defense, I point out that I don’t drive very far
anymore, to which he replies, “You won’t be going anywhere with an empty tank
of gas.” I hate it when he’s right. So I try to always have at least half a tank
to cut down on the disapproving frowns.
These are little things, but I do them because I love David
and he loves me. And he does little
things for me, too. It’s all part of
having a relationship with him.
‘Course, relationships are very complex. Taken by itself, being thoughtful is sort of
a small thing.
But that’s what makes it so simple, and that’s what makes it
so profound.
To meet a simple need in the midst of a multifaceted relationship
is to touch the other in a very deep place.
It is enormously gratifying to be dear enough to someone who will show
the depth of their love by doing this just for you.
And if this is true of connections between human beings, how
much greater is it when God Himself meets a simple need of ours?
I just love
it when He does that…
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